The inner confinement leads us to create distance with each other. There are those who think that the observation, however pessimistic it may be, is negative. Pessimism and optimism are abstract notions, labels in order to reassure oneself.. verbalizations that rather define one's avoidance of the facts.. partisan labels without intrinsic values. Only the facts matter.
"When you are so concerned with your small backyard and ambitions, when you are afraid of the future and demand psychological and material security, you surround yourself with barricades and protections of all kinds. It then destroys the relationship, keeping it at a safe distance to prevent any close contact, honest communication, and intelligent progression .. There lies the limit of friendship. Do we see, beyond descriptions, the truth of disorder in ourselves or are we busy thinking, interpreting, condemning, justifying or running away ? If so, nothing that is shared has any value. However to be in relation means to share and to commune. But to share we must agree on the meaning of words and not interpret them according to our moods.
Communion implies seeing and sharing the facts together, seeing its truth and contemplating within ourselves. It requires humility, curiosity to discover how to overcome your state of confusion and conflict. This implies freeing yourself from all that is false with honesty, and avoiding argumentations that has no meaning, apart from that of distraction and the staging of oneself, of the ego. Profound change and the transformation of the individual is a matter of attention, listening then perceiving an indisputable fact. From this perception, the structure of the brain changes, durably. It is then necessary to act without choosing. The result is of a different nature and completely different. There is the good news !
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